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Nobleton Community Church
29084 Sentinel Street PO Box 224
Nobleton, Florida 34661
Rev. Paul V. Lehmann, Pastor
813-389-8683
Nobletoncommunitychurch.org
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“ACROSS THE STREET AND ACROSS THE WORLD”
Nobleton Community Church
Date February 22, 2026
Text Ephesians 4:29-32
Pastor Paul Lehmann
As followers of Christ, we are called to embody His character and demonstrate His love to others. One essential aspect of Christ’s character is kindness, which encompasses a gentle spirit, compassion, and selflessness. Today, we will explore the profound impact of kindness and how it reflects the heart of Christ.
Our biblical foundation for this sermon can be found in Ephesians 4:29-32, where the apostle Paul provides practical guidance on cultivating kindness and its transformative effect on our relationships and interactions. In these verses, we will discover the power of our words, the importance of compassionate actions, and the significance of reflecting God’s kindness in our lives.
Let us open our hearts and minds to the words of Scripture as we embark on this journey to understand the vital role of kindness in reflecting Christ’s character.
Guarding Our Words with Kindness
In our journey to reflect Christ’s character, we must first address our speech. Our words can shape lives, mend broken hearts, and inspire hope. As followers of Christ, we must guard our words with kindness, for they hold the potential to either uplift or tear down others.
In Ephesians 4:29, the apostle Paul writes, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what helps build others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” This verse is a gentle reminder that our words should be a source of encouragement, edification, and healing.
When we act like the world, talk like the world, behave like the world, and respond the way the world does, we grieve the Holy Spirit.to feel shock, hurt, and grief. You see, when we deliberately do what is wrong, we drag Him right into the mire of sin with us, because He lives in us, and goes where we go, if we have invited Him into our lives to be our Savior.
(verse 30.) The Holy Spirit convicted us of sin and brought us to Jesus, then He indwelt us, sanctified us, empowered us, and faithfully remains alongside us to help us. So when we deliberately enter into sin, it grieves Him. Just as a husband or wife would feel who has just discovered that his or her spouse has committed adultery, the Holy Spirit is shocked when we dishonor His Presence in our lives.
We need to realize how precious the Holy Spirit is in our lives and honor Him by making sure we live holy and upright lives. If our behavior has been wrong, we should confess our sin and receive cleansing by the blood of Jesus so we can be restored to fellowship. Besides what this does for us:
Consider for a moment the impact of a kind word spoken at the right time. It can brighten someone’s day, lift their spirits, and instill a sense of worth and value. On the contrary, harsh and hurtful words can leave lasting scars, causing pain and division. Therefore, it is crucial that we intentionally choose kindness in our speech, allowing our words to be a source of blessing to those around us.
To cultivate kindness in our speech, we must be mindful of our chosen words and their effect on others. Let us strive to speak words of affirmation, love, and encouragement. Let us actively listen to others, seeking to understand their needs and responding with empathy. And: Let us humbly apologize and seek forgiveness when our words have caused harm. By guarding our words with kindness, we can reflect Christ’s gentle and compassionate heart in our interactions with others.
Now that we understand the significance of guarding our words let’s explore how kindness influences our actions.
Demonstrating Compassionate Actions
Kindness is not limited to words alone; it should also be evident in our actions toward others. Our compassionate actions provide tangible expressions of Christ’s love and care in a world desperately needing kindness.
In the first half of verse 32, Paul instructs us to “be kind and compassionate to one another.” This call goes beyond mere sentiment or feeling; it requires us to actively engage in acts of kindness and compassion towards those around us. Christ’s teachings provide numerous examples of compassionate actions, such as serving the marginalized, helping the needy, and practicing forgiveness.
II Corinthians 12:20-21 Paul says: “For I am afraid that when I come I may not find you as I want you to be, and you may not find me as you want me to be. I fear that there may be discord ——-this is a Greek word which depicts a church divided by “church politics. It could be translated as quarrels and wranglings. —then jealousy, —which pictures a person not concerned with the interests of others. —- fits of rage, selfish ambition, slander,——, the Greek word means to “talk down, or speak disparagingly of someone.”—— gossip,—arrogance, and disorder.
. I want you to notice that gossip is right in the middle of this list of other words that God is displeased with. It includes: “Repeating what others have said, believing it is the truth, but in reality you say things that you don’t know what the truth really is. Then Paul says he is afraid that: “ my God will humble me before you, and I will be grieved over many who have sinned earlier and have not repented of the impurity, sexual sin, and debauchery in which they have indulged. “
In our text from Ephesians, we see that:
Compassionate actions reflect Christ’s character by embodying His selflessness and sacrificial love. When we extend a helping hand to someone in need, we become the hands and feet of Jesus, bringing His compassion to a hurting world. The transformative impact of kindness and compassion goes beyond the immediate act itself. It has the power to inspire, heal, and restore both the giver and the receiver.
As members of this congregation, let us actively seek opportunities to demonstrate compassionate actions daily. It could be as simple as offering a listening ear to someone struggling, volunteering our time to serve the vulnerable, or extending forgiveness to those who have wronged us. Each act, no matter how small, can make a significant difference in the lives of others.
Let us embrace the challenge to be agents of compassion, reflecting the love of Christ through our actions. By doing so, we will transform the lives of those we touch and experience the profound joy and fulfillment that comes from living out Christ’s character.
As followers of Christ, our ultimate source of inspiration for kindness is His sacrificial love for us. Let’s delve deeper into this aspect.
Reflecting God’s Kindness in our Lives
As we seek to reflect Christ’s character through kindness, it is vital to recognize that God’s kindness towards us serves as the foundation for our actions. We can draw inspiration from the depth of His love and the boundless kindness He has shown us.
In the second half of verse 32, Paul encourages us to forgive each other, just as in Christ, God forgave us. Reflecting on God’s ultimate act of kindness through Christ’s sacrifice and forgiveness, we witness a love that surpasses all understanding. The kindness of God is demonstrated in His willingness to extend mercy and grace to undeserving sinners, offering us redemption and reconciliation. But we must forgive those who sin (that is, trespass against us). We read how important this is in Matthew 6:14-15. If we don’t forgive others, God won’t forgive us..
When we truly grasp the magnitude of God’s kindness towards us, it compels us to reflect that same kindness to others. We become conduits of His love, forgiving as we have been forgiven, extending grace to those who may not deserve it, and showing kindness to friends and foes.
Cultivating a grateful heart and a willingness to forgive is essential to reflecting God’s kindness. As we internalize the depth of God’s love and forgiveness, we are empowered to extend that same kindness to those around us. Let us not withhold forgiveness or allow bitterness to take root in our hearts, but instead, let us embrace the transformative power of God’s kindness and extend it to others.
As we end our time together, let us reflect on the profound truth that kindness is not merely a desirable attribute but an integral part of reflecting Christ’s character. Through our study of Ephesians 4:29-32, we have been reminded of; The significance of guarding our words with kindness, demonstrating compassionate actions, and reflecting on God’s kindness in our lives.
Kindness is not a passive virtue; it requires intentional effort and a genuine desire to emulate Christ’s love. As members of this congregation, let us take to heart the call to pursue kindness in our interactions with others actively. May our words be a source of encouragement and edification, our actions reflect Christ’s compassionate heart, and our forgiveness a testament to God’s boundless grace.
Today, let us commit to reflecting on God’s kindness in our lives:
How do we do this? By cultivating a grateful heart and a willingness to forgive as we have been forgiven. By doing so, we emulate the character of Christ and become beacons of His kindness and love in a world longing for genuine compassion and grace.
