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Nobleton Community Church
29084 Sentinel Street PO Box 224
Nobleton, Florida 34661
Rev. Paul V. Lehmann, Pastor
813-389-8683
Nobletoncommunitychurch.org
info@nobletoncommunitychurch.org
OUR VISION IS:
To experience SPIRIT-FILLED WORSHIP AND PRAYER
To be involved in EVANGELISM, DISCIPLINING AND TRAINING PEOPLE
To use our SPIRITUAL GIFTS
To SERVE AND REACH PEOPLE FOR CHRIST, BOTH
“ACROSS THE STREET AND ACROSS THE WORLD”
Nobleton Community Church
Date March 23, 2025
Text James 1:19-25
Pastor Paul Lehmann
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Listening is something that none of us do very well. It seems that the majority of people like to talk, and those who don’t get so tired of hearing other people talk that they “tune people out.”
Some memorable advice was given to a daughter by her mother, while she was preparing for a date. “Try to get him to do all the talking dear. Most men can’t resist a girl who asks leading questions and pays rapt attention to their answers.”
The feminine asking role goes all the way back, to the time of the Queen of Sheba and her dazzling conquest of King Solomon In II Chronicles 9:1-2we have the account, “when she and Solomon met, she asked him all the questions that she could think of and he answered them all.”
This advice pertains to women, but the point is, most of us don’t listen enough. Sometimes it is the women who also do not listen. Listening is not only good for trapping a husband and later in the marriage relationship, but for communication in general and also for those in leadership.
It is important to listen to people to develop relationships, but it’s even more important to LISTEN TO GOD.
Tim Hansel in his book: “When I Relax I Feel Guilty” writes. “A Native American from the Cherokee tribe was in downtown New York, walking with his friend who lived in New York City. Suddenly he said, “I hear a cricket. I’m sure of it.” “Are you crazy” his friend replied. “No, I hear a cricket. I’m sure of it.” Are you kidding, it’s noon, and there are people bustling all around, cars honking, taxis squealing, and noises from the city. I’m sure you can’t hear a cricket I’m sure I do he said, He listened attentively and then walked to the corner across the street, and looked all around. Finally, on the corner, he found a shrub in a large cement planter. He dug beneath the leaves and found a cricket. His friend was astounded. But the Cherokee said, “No my ears are no different from yours. It simply depends on what you are listening to. Here, let me show you. “He reached into his pocket and pulled out a handful of change—–a few quarters, some dimes, and nickels, and dropped them on the concrete. Every head within a few feet heard it and stopped. Turned and looked. “You see what I mean? –he said as he began picking up his coins. “It all depends on what you are listening for.”
Not only must Christians have “ears to hear: like Jesus said in Matt 13:9, but they must learn what to listen for. In verse 19 of James, we see three things about listening and doing that are important in our relationship with God. Our text shows that we must,
BE QUICK TO LISTEN
This really means that we need to pay attention and hear what is being said!
In the Kikongo language that Jeannene and I learned, they have an expression that says: “Weti wa”—-Are you Hearing? There is another word for listening. Dimba. “Weti dimba? —means are you listening? But they don’t say this because they know that you might be listening to what is being said, but the question is; are you really hearing what is being said—are you understanding what is being said?
We might wonder why the ever-practical James does not proceed to outline schemes of daily Bible reading or ways to do our devotions, or quiet time with the Lord because this would be a good way to offer a willing ear to hearing, the voice of God. But he doesn’t help us in this way. Rather he goes deeper, for there is little point in schemes or schedules and times of reading the bible if we don’t have an attentive spirit. Many Christians read the Bible through, in a year, some, have read the bible 30 or 40 times through in their lifetime. Some are very proud of this achievement.
Back when “The Merv Griffin Show: was still on the air, the guest was a body builder. During the interview, Merv asked, “Why do you develop those particular muscles? The bodybuilder simply stepped forward and flexed a series of well-defined muscles from chest to calf. The audience applauded. What do you use all those muscles for? Merv asked. Again, the muscular specimen flexed, and biceps and triceps sprouted to impressive proportions. “But what do you use those muscles for? Merv persisted. The bodybuilder was bewildered. He didn’t have an answer, other than to display his well-developed body.
Our spiritual exercises—Bible reading, and even Bible study, prayer and reading Christian books, listening to Christian radio or CDs or watching Christian TV pastors, are all for a purpose. They are meant to strengthen
our spiritual life, and to also strengthen our ability to build God’s kingdom, not simply to improve our “pose” before and admiring audience.
But unfortunately, sometimes the people who do those things, are often not as far along spiritually as someone who has not done this, but have read the bible with an open and attentive spirit to hear what God wants to say to them. Now this isn’t an excuse for not reading the bible clear through, or to not pay any attention to other things to help us grow spiritually, but we do need to make sure that we are listening to what the Lord is saying to us, by really hearing what He is saying. If we can develop an attentive spirit, this will spur us to create those conditions, which the spirit will find itself satisfied in hearing the Word of God.
In what he actually says in the last part of verse 19 and in 20 James seems to mix together the two ideas of getting along with people, and also getting along with God.
WE SHOULD BE QUICK TO LISTEN, BUT ALSO
WE SHOULD BE SLOW TO SPEAK.
We all are guilty to some degree of talking too much at the wrong time, but have you ever tried to talk to someone who if they do pause long enough for you to talk, give you the feeling that they are not listening to you, but thinking what they are going to say next and if they are hearing you they are not really concentrating on what you were trying to communicate, but rather what they will say in rebuttal.
In general, women talk more than men. This is not always true, but many times it is. Years ago astronaut Michael Collins, speaking at a banquet quoted the estimate that probably some of you have heard, that the average man speaks 25,000 words a day and the average woman 30,000 words. Then he added, “unfortunately when I come home each day I’ve already spoken my 25,000, but my wife hasn’t started her 30,000 yet.
People like to hear themselves talk, except for those shy personalities that keep it all inside. But even then we tend to, when we do speak, say things we shouldn’t say and offend people or we say things that we don’t really mean, or that we shouldn’t be saying because it is rumor or worse, slander or gossip, but in a given moment we just blurt it out!
You may have heard about the young man who was looking for a wife, and finally he found just the girl. He said, honey, you must marry me, I love you so much!. And she responded to him, but I don’t love you, you must find someone else, some beautiful girl. Then he stuck his foot in his mouth by blurting out, “but I don’t wasn’t some beautiful girl, I want you!”
We need to be slow to speak. Be sure that what we say communicates what is on our heart. Proverbs 17:28 says; “Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, an discerning if he holds his tongue.”
One of the early classical writers, named “Zeno” says; “We have tow ears, but only one mouth, that we may hear more and speak less.”
Take note of this, the reception of the Word demands a readiness “to listen.” Reluctance at this point will block the acceptance of truth. It also demands restrained speech. A continual talker cannot hear what anyone else is saying and by the same token will not hear when God speaks. Arent we all guilty in a sense of talking too much to God. (Not that we can ever pray enough), but we are always asking Him for things. Not giving Him enough time for His Spirit to speak to our hearts, or show us in His Word what he wants to communicate to our hearts.
SO WE MUST BE QUICK TO LISTEN,
SLOW TO SPEAK AND THEN,
FINALLY WE MUST BE SLOW TO ANGER.
Our anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires for us.
The word righteous here has the same concentrate meaning as in Matthew 3:15 when Jesus was going to be baptized by John, and John said, “Oh no, it is I that should be baptized by you!” Then Jesus responded, “It is proper for us to do this to fulfill all righteousness.” Up until that time no Jew had ever been baptized. Only proselytes who wanted to follow God—those gentile “sinners.” But now, Jesus who never sinned, identified with all men, and their search for God, and he identified with all mankind and the purpose that He was to fulfill. It means all that God in his righteousness proposes done. The growth of the new nature from infancy to adult, that is, spiritual maturity is the righteous purpose of God for us; this is what will happen if we go on with the task of hearing the word of truth—-and then obeying it.
This is how James develops the idea of going on with God. But the prohibition against anger must have to do with getting along with people, and surely this is also the context of the command to be slow to speak. It is a prohibition to allow anger to lead us into sin.
What does it take to motivate someone to betray deep seated loyalties? Unresolved anger and resentment, for one thing. Consider the story some years ago, of Earl Pitts, and FBI agent turned Soviet spy.
According to Evan Thomas in Newsweek, Pitts was raised on a farm in Missouri and was recognized as a “Future Farmer of America” (FFA). About all rural area high schools used to have an FFA chapter. Believe it or not, there is a high school in Tampa that has an FFA. Anyway, his parents said they disciplined him firmly but fairly. He was a captain in the army who regarded himself as a patriot. Even after he was caught, his wife described him as a “good man.” So what happened? After getting his law degree and serving as a military policeman (an M.P.), for 6 years, in 1983 Pitts realized a lifelong ambition by going to work for the FBI. He was assigned to the New Yoork office, and there his troubles began. He did not see how he could afford to live in the “Big Apple” on his $25,000 a year salary. Thomas writes, “morale in the office was poor, and petty cheating on expense accounts was rampant.” Burdened with debt from student loans, Pitts had to ask his father for a loan. He felt humiliated. Pitts later told a psychiatrist that he was “overwhelmed by a sense of rage at the FBI. One morning he came up with the idea of spying for the KGB. That way he could kill two birds with one stone. He later told the psychiatrist, “I was shoved by the bureaucracy, and I shoved back.” For 7 years Pitts worked as a Soviet spy and for his services received $224,000. When he was finally caught and convicted, the judge sentenced him to 27 years in prison. At his sentencing
the judge asked him, why he had become a traitor. Earl Pitts replied;
“I GAVE IN TO AN UNREASONABLE ANGER” He began his sentence in 1998 and was released on Dec. 20, 2019. He died in 2022.
Never allow anger to fester. Deal with anger as God prescribes. In Psalm 4:4 we read; “In anger do not sin, when you are on your beds, search your hearts and be silent.” Paul quotes this Psalm in Ephesians 4:28, “In your anger do not sin. Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and DO NOT GIVE THE DEVIL A FOOTHOLD.
This is important in all of our relationships. Between husbands and wives—parents and children—friends and fellow believers in the body of Christ—and our neighbors, or people you are holding a grudge against. When this happens, bitterness has set in, the blunt fact is that our life with God is not something segregated, to be restricted to “quiet times” and insulated from our life with people. If we do not have an attentive ear in the ordinary circumstances of life, we do not become different people when we shut the door and open the Bible. We must cultivate over the whole area of those virtues and practices that will pay dividends when we turn our minds to God and His Word. We must use the circumstances of life as a training ground for a readiness to HEAR
a place to control our SPEECH and a cautious hatred of ANGER. The restraint of anger is demanded, for anger closes the mind to God’s truth. A fiercely argumentative attitude is not conducive to the humble reception of truth. Our ears become closed and we don’t want to listen, let alone hear and understand when we are angry.
Let’s learn to listen carefully and really hear what people have to say so that we are ready to hear what God has to say to us. Let’s not be quick to speak, so that we don’t respond to people in anger. But then let’s be DOERS OF THE WORD AND NOT HEARERS ONLY